the best method of advice

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If you want to advise somebody, advise them in private, and when in private speak to them softly, and when speaking to them softly smile, this is the best method of advice.

speak kindly to people ( The Quran 20:44 )

Do not be rude in speech ( The Quran 3:159 )

“ A Persons tongue can give you the taste of his heart “

Ibn Al-Qayyim

always to use good words